هذا الطفل طفل حساس عنيد مستقل وصاحب نزوات تبدو لأهله والمحيطين به أشبه شيء بالموجات الكهربائية أو الإشعاعات الذرية . لكن هذه الظاهرة لا تعود مستغربة متى عرفنا أن الكوكب أورانوس يؤثر في هذا الطفل ويكسبه غرابة الأطوار التي تعرف عنه .
يتمتع هذا الطفل بدماغ معقد هو مزيج من التفكير الواقعي والمنطق السليم والحس المرهف الأمر الذي يمنح شخصيته طابعا سلبيا يجعله يرفض الانصياع للأوامر ما لم يقتنع بها أولا , كما يمنحه مزاجا مملوءا بالتناقضات . يحاول في الواقع أن يبدو مختلفا عن بقية الأطفال فلا يتوانى من أجل ذلك عن الظهور بمظهر الشيوخ الحكماء أو الأشخاص الغريبي الأطوار . يتمنى مثلا الخروج تحت المطر أو يلزم غرفته المغلقة في الجو الصافي الجميل .
قد ينجح هذا الطفل في المدرسة نجاحا باهرا يقوده إليه منطقه السليم أو يفشل فشلا ذريعا بسبب قلة انتباهه وعدم مقدرته على التركيز . ومن مشاكله الرئيسية في تلك المرحلة المبكرة من عمره ضعف الذاكرة وتشتت الأفكار , فإذا لم يعالج منهما في الوقت الملائم تفاقم أمره على مر السنين وأصبح فيما بعد إنسانا شبه ضائع . يجب في الواقع تشجيعه على ممارسة الرياضة وعلى الخروج من دائرة بيته الضيقة كي لا يبقى أسير جسمه البطيء وأحلامه السريعة المتيقظة .
يكره هذا الطفل العصافير والأشجار والشواطئ والغابات وجميع الأشياء الأخرى التي يألفها الأطفال عادة , ويفضل عليها اكتشافاته الخاصة الأكثر تعقيدا , كما يكره المسؤولية والواجب ويفضل عليهما أساليب العيش الأبسط والأسهل . لهذا السبب يصبح من واجب أهله أن ينموا فيه هذه الروح التي يفتقر إليها إذا أرادوا له في المستقبل دورا في المجتمع بناءا و إيجابيا .
على الرغم من غرابة أطواره ينجح هذا الطفل في استقطاب أكبر عدد من الأصدقاء من مختلف الأعمار والطبقات . ومع ذلك يبقى بعيدا عن التجارب العاطفية التي يمر بها سواه من الأطفال وخصوصا في مرحلة المراهقة . والحقيقة أن هذا الطفل يفضل على حب الفرد الواحد حب الإنسانية بأجمعها .
هذا ويتأثر بمشاكل أهله تأثرا بالغا يحاول إخفاءه بجميع الوسائل . إن جميع ما يراه ويسمعه في طفولته يبقى في الواقع منقوشا في ذاكرته حتى آخر نسمة من حياته . وليس هذا فحسب بل إن في استطاعته قراءة أفكار الآخرين والتكهن بتصرفاتهم قبل حدوثها ولهذا السبب بالذات يجب على أهله أن يؤمنوا له جوا عائليا يسوده الهدوء والتفاهم والانسجام , وتراعى فيه طبيعته الغريبة هذه .
يقال أن هذا الطفل يولد ناضجا بكل معنى الكلمة . وهو منذ البداية يضع لنفسه أهدافا يجهلها غيره من الأطفال العاديين . ومع أنه يجهل في أي اتجاه يسير باستمرار إلى أن يصل إلى غايته المنشودة.
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