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يناير 5, 20171
يناير 5, 2017منذ أن يفتح هذا الطفل عينيه أول مرة يبدو فيهما سحر غريب يوحي بأنه طفل غير عادي هبط من كوكب بعيد على متن شعاع قمري . وعندما تتأمل والدته وجهه المورد وبشرته الرقيقة وغمازاته الحلوة يمتلئ قلبها بالسرور , وتتمنى لو تمتد طفولته لتنعم بها أطول فترة ممكنة . ولا بد من أن تكتشف يوما , بعد مضي سنوات , أن السماء قد حقـقت فعلا رجاءها وتركت لابنها جزءا كبيرا من أحلام وخيالات طفولته السعيدة .
يظهر هذا الطفل منذ البداية كارها لواقع الحياة ورتابتها , هاويا للتمثيل بغية الهروب إلى عالم آخر أجمل وأهنأ . إن ميله هذا يسهل في الواقع أمر تربيته ورعايته . فإذا أرادت والدته إقناعه بأمر ما عليها الدخول معه في تمثيلية وهمية ينسى فيها نفسه فينقاد إلى أوامرها طائعا مختارا . تستطيع مثلا التظاهر بأنها جنية لطيفة جاءت ترش عينيه بالنوم فينام , أو تدعي أن الملعقة عصفور هائم , وأن فمه هو العش , فيفتحه ويتلقف الطعام , وهكذا . . . إن أي أسلوب يتسم بطابع الغرابة يظل أفضل بالنسبة إليه من الروتين الذي يسير عليه الأطفال عادة . إنه على كل حال يرفض اللجوء إلى العنف والصراخ للوصول إلى مبتغاه , ويستعمل عوضا منهما أساليب ملتوية فيها الكثير من الذكاء و الحكمة .
حاجة هذا الطفل إلى التقدير والتشجيع ماسة بسبب ثقته القليلة بنفسه وإيمانه بأن كفاءاته محدودة . وهو حساس خجول سريع العطب ولكنه قادر على إخفاء حقيقة أمره تحت ستار التكتم والادعاء . ومع أنه ماهر في تحوير الواقع إلا أنه يصر على القول إنه صادق لا يكذب . كذبه على حال من النوع البريء الناجم عن الخوف من تعرية الحقائق . هذا من ناحية , ومن ناحية أخرى يعتبر في المدرسة مصدر حيرة واستغراب معلميه وذلك بسبب رفضه أساليب التعليم المألوفة واتباعه أسلوبا خاصا به وحده تثبت جدارته مع الوقت . هو أيضا طفل فنان يتذوق الموسيقى والرقص ويدهش الناس بخفته ورشاقـته , كما ينجذب بقوة نحو رجالات الحرب وعلماء الفضاء وكبار الموسيقيين والنحاتين . يفضل معاشرة الكبار على الصغار , ومع ذلك يتهرب من الواجب والمسؤولية .
يعيش هذا الطفل حالة تقمص غريبة إذ يتحدث عن أناس ماتوا قبل ولادته , ويسرد بعض الوقائع قبيل حدوثها . إن الخطر كل الخطر أن تقابل هذه الظاهرة بالهزء أو اللوم أو الاتهام بالكذب لأن الأيام والحوادث كثيرا ما تثبت صدق رؤية هذا الطفل العجيب . بالمقابل لا يجوز تركه فريسة أوهامه وخيالاته دون تدخل بناء من قبل أهله ومربيه . إن في الإمكان معالجة أمره بالرفق والصبر والمحبة إلى أن يستطيع التكيف للعالم الذي يعيش فيه وينجح في تحويل جزء من أحلامه إلى واقع ملموس فيه سعادته واستقراره.
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